Kay SM

  • A Labor Day Weekend to Remember

    This Labor Day weekend was nothing short of soul-filling. Three days spent camping at Settlers Cove gave us just the right blend of relaxation, adventure, and family connection. It felt like summer’s last big embrace—sun on our shoulders, sand between… Continue reading

    A Labor Day Weekend to Remember
  • To be a boy

    Does he have the space to be a boy? To break things, to build things, to wrestle, to climb, to create—and yes, even to destroy? Boys are wired with energy that spills out of them, sometimes louder and messier than… Continue reading

    To be a boy
  • Canning/Pickling/Harvesting Mom Era

    This season feels like a love letter written in dirt-under-the-nails cursive. I’m measuring life in jar lids and berry stains, in the soft thud of potatoes hitting a bucket and the bright ping of seals setting on the counter. Somewhere… Continue reading

    Canning/Pickling/Harvesting Mom Era
  • Enjoyment

    When I think about my childhood, the first thing that comes to mind isn’t material possessions—it’s the feeling of being enjoyed. My parents genuinely loved raising us. Of course, there were rules and responsibilities, but underneath it all, there was… Continue reading

    Enjoyment
  • My Little Brothers Went and Grew Up on Me (And Somehow, I’m Not Crying… Okay, I’m Crying)

    It feels like five minutes ago my little brothers were using my hairbrush as a lightsaber, pranking each other, or trying to convince me that yes, gummy candy counts as nutrition. Somewhere between Nerf gun battles in the living room,… Continue reading

    My Little Brothers Went and Grew Up on Me (And Somehow, I’m Not Crying… Okay, I’m Crying)
  • I Don’t Do It All

    Let’s just go ahead and say it: I don’t do it all. Not even close. I know how it can look from the outside—muddy boots drying on the boot rack, happy kids running wild, homemade berry jam and pickles cooling… Continue reading

    I Don’t Do It All
  • Barefoot, Bruised, & Bossy

    If you didn’t grow up in Southeast Alaska running around in rain boots and eating snacks you found in the woods, did you even grow up here? I was raised in the thick of it—leading two wild younger twin brothers… Continue reading

    Barefoot, Bruised, & Bossy
  • Bless this Beautiful Chaos

    Some mornings start with hot coffee and a good book, relaxing on the couch in a quiet serene home. Others start with someone screaming “MOM!!! It’s so rainy again!!” Guess which happens more often. Raising boys in Alaska is like… Continue reading

    Bless this Beautiful Chaos
  • When the House gets Quiet

    The house rarely gets quiet. Not truly. There’s always some soft rustle—a dryer spinning, rain tapping against the windows, footsteps running up the hallway, a little boys voice asking for something, again. But once in a while, just long enough… Continue reading

    When the House gets Quiet
  • The Little Things That Mean Everything

    Love stories often get told in big gestures—flowers, fancy dinners, surprise trips. But the truth is, the kind of love that carries our marriage is found in the quiet, ordinary moments. It’s in the way we choose each other daily,… Continue reading

    The Little Things That Mean Everything