Real life

  • Shame to Peace

    “And yes—there was shame. Not because I had done something wrong, but because society teaches women to internalize endings as personal failures.” Continue reading

    Shame to Peace
  • Just be nice. Please.

    “Believe the best in people. Or at least stop assuming the worst. Most people aren’t masterminds plotting against you. Nobody is spending that much time obsessing over how they can ruin your day. They’re just tired, flawed, normal humans trying… Continue reading

    Just be nice. Please.
  • Too Much Quiet

    “I reminded myself that this ache is really just love with nowhere to go in that moment. That in a few days it will sound different. That the voices, the mess, the warmth will all come back.” Continue reading

    Too Much Quiet
  • New Year’s Hope

    “My hope is to let Him lead, to trust His timing, and to believe that the doors He opens are meant for me—and the ones He closes are for my protection, even when I don’t understand it. More than anything,… Continue reading

    New Year’s Hope
  • Dancing in the Dark

    “Music has a way of holding our memories gently, like a time capsule we can open when we’re ready. Today, it reminded me that even the hardest chapters can become the ones you look back on with pride—not because they… Continue reading

    Dancing in the Dark
  • Grateful for His Year, Grateful for Him

    “There is a unique ache in co-parenting that shows itself most clearly on birthdays—the day that should feel simple and celebratory, the day that marks your becoming a mother, and yet it seems tangled in logistics” Continue reading

    Grateful for His Year, Grateful for Him
  • Humble Progress

    “Running again feels awkward, humbling, and sweaty in ways that remind me that growth is earned—not entitled. But those miles meant something bigger than cardio. They represented forward motion—in health, in motherhood, in confidence, and in honoring the woman I… Continue reading

    Humble Progress
  • Nothing but Gratitude

    “When I look back, it’s a blur of busy calendars, muddy shoes, little boy laughter, wedding planning chaos, and freezer-filling Alaska days. But woven through all of it was this steady feeling of thankfulness.” Continue reading

    Nothing but Gratitude
  • My Soul Dog

    We got some hard news last week. After Diesel’s foot surgery, the results came back: soft tissue sarcoma. Cancer. The vet felt good about the surgery and confident that they got it all, which gives us hope — but hearing… Continue reading

    My Soul Dog
  • The Girls Who Got Me Here

    When I reflect on walking down the aisle, my heart swells with gratitude—not just for the man waiting at the altar, but for the incredible women standing beside me. Each of them has been a part of shaping who I… Continue reading

    The Girls Who Got Me Here